a part of a couple even if you have relashionship issues nd would be figting with your other half all the time?..i would rather be alone with mah kids than have to put them trough the pain of relashionship issues...then they can just get hurt...im not saying i wouldnt let them meet their dad...just that they would be with me not him...?




to all those that answeared my last question...is it selfish to not whant to put your kids through all the pain?..i love my mom and even though i have lots of issues...i know she raised me the best she could...nd its not her fault i mess up...if she could raise me alone i think i can do it to...?

single parent!

I *did* become a single parent because my marriage was terrible. My ex was on drugs and became abusive. I removed my children from that situation. Although we had it tough on our own for a little while, it was better than sticking around and letting that bastard abuse us.